Ed’s note: This post is a contribution from an overseas reader, Jeanine Wardman. Thank you for the intriguing view of South Africa that you present, Jeanine.
Oxford, England
April 2009
To President Zuma, and for my children
South Africa, I tell my children, dear Mr Zuma, is incurably complex and endlessly exciting, in one thrilling instant.
It is, I tell them often, a country in which the world comes together, quite literally – a kind of global microcosm or experiment, even; a place that persistently challenges, and that redefines notions of nationhood and politicises identity, perhaps like no other.
To those who call it home, it offers the opportunity to touch and be touched by lives vastly different to one’s own, every day anew. That, I tell them – its ravishing beauty and abundance of opportunity aside – is their most precious birthright.
My children know the country of their birth is in some ways the custodian of humanity’s greatest hopes and grandest dreams.
However, if there is one particular kind of agony I’d like to spare my offspring in the years following their coming of age, dear Mr Zuma, it is that of pondering their South Africanness – in the manner of the palpable torment contained in those immortal titles Cry The Beloved Country, Country of My Skull, My Traitor’s Heart and others. The source of agony has of course been eradicated, yes. And we have great South African freedom fighters such as yourself to praise and honour and forever thank for this. But will you concede, Mr Zuma, that South Africa is still lamented, still agonised over? At least by some, then? Many even.
Her political future is uncertain, her moral standing is tarnished, and her citizens are systematically traumatised by an all-consuming fear of violent, mindless crime. Perhaps even more despairingly, countless more are ravaged by squalor and hopelessness.
Yes, the country is in the throes, still, of redefining itself, of transition and transformation. Yes, decades of institutionalised discrimination can’t be without consequence. Yes, yes and another irrevocable, unconditional yes.
But where does all this rationalising, defeatism even, leave our children, Mr Zuma; or the Pakatis’ of Kayamandi; or the Reids’ of Constantia; or the Steenkamps’ of the Strand?
As a hopelessly patriotic South African, I cling fiercely to the hope that my children’s relationship with the place of their birth will, one day, be less fraught than mine; less ambivalent, or at least that their citizenship will be less confounding a label to bear.
I am telling my children that their soon-to-be president is a populist of Zulu ethnicity – a man of the people and of humble beginnings; an illustrious and brave liberation hero who sacrificed greatly for the very people he now serves, for the only country he’ll ever love.
And that you sing of machine guns and win hordes of their countrymen’s hearts and minds in so doing…
If only our country was less strange, Mr Zuma.
The media and other critics cast you as a man of dubious moral character and are doubtful history will have much to say to our children’s generation about your leadership and tenure, when the time comes. Others reserve judgment and reckon you to be a pragmatist, a realist even – approachable in a way your predecessor wasn’t – and that all is far from lost.
The polemicist Christopher Hitchens has made the considered observation that, to paraphrase, great leaders do not have to be above and beyond moral reproach in order to lead greatly or even teach lessons of vast moral magnitude, citing the example of Dr Martin Luther King, his problematic personal life, and his monumental role in the American civil rights movement.
What shall I say to my children of your intended legacy, Mr Zuma?
Will we, their guardians and those we entrust, make haste and effort and spare them the anguish, the exhaustion – of being from and of a place destined for greatness, but that forever fumbles in claiming such providence?
Will you, President Zuma, make this your gift to give?
Will their country meet our beautifully unburdened, always joyful children, when the time comes for them to be of age, as an eternal companion striding tall and gracefully alongside … ever-present, but never in need of carrying?
Will the beloved country ever not be cried over, Mr Zuma?
Yours faithfully,
Jeanine Wardman
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April 29th, 2009 at 2:18 pm
Oh spare me the drama…
April 30th, 2009 at 10:06 am
Hi!
An open letter to Mr Zuma, whose moral standing is far more in disrepute than Richard Nixon’s in his waning days of presidency, will certainly fall on deaf ears with the intended recipient.
To call Martin Luther King’s personal life “problematic” is awkwardly daft; to compare his life and stature with Jacob Zuma, however, a far-fetched insanity.
I share none of your idealistic descriptions of today’s South Africa, but all of your anxieties and fears. South Africa needs pragmatist technocrats and hard-working, disciplined government. We do not need an uneducated bigamist and ex-convict to take centre-stage to do his tribal spastic rituals in the midst of communist inspired buffoons. From this side, Mr Zuma cannot expect confidence in him, nor expressions of good wishes and high expectations to run the affairs of South Africa markedly different to Robert Mugabe up north.
April 30th, 2009 at 10:11 am
>> caz
LOL – I thought initially of a reply along your line too.
May 4th, 2009 at 1:52 pm
I think the truth may lie somewhere between Jeanine and Caz/Elgar. I have vacillated between warm hope and utter despair and fear watching and listening to the goings on around me. I have never met JZ, but I imagine that he would not be so hot in a debate of any depth if someone wasn’t holding his cue cards. He has experience of hardship though, and I hope this will prompt him to surround himself with good advisers and ACT against unemployment/unsustainable rural living and poverty. Once this starts to unwind itself, HIV and crime solutions will become more practical and less pie-in-the-sky.
I always like to use the example of Italy (post WW2) when trying to explain our situation to my non-South African friends (and family). Italy has had more governments, some of very dubious moral and economic intent, than there have been years. Business and ordinary citizens are what keep a country running, not governments. It would be great if we could get it all working together, but I seriously doubt that will happen unless there is a major shift in human consciousness.
Thats all for now!
May 4th, 2009 at 4:50 pm
I somehow always have to force myself to read things sent in by expats; it’s kind of like the Pope telling people about contraception, isn’t it?
Tell your children this, too: If they grow up like all the kids we’re seeing on the UK news, they’ll be stabbing other kids to death at age nine. Tell them if they ever come back here, they’ll have accents that will set them apart immediately and forever. Tell them – better still, SHOW them that “hopelessly patriotic” people are still here, living a new life with other hopelessly patriotic lovers of South Africa. For good measure, add in that South Africans – indeed, most Africans – are brilliant entrepreneurs and don’t have to register their buckets and sponges with “Health & Safety” or the FDA before earning some bucks. And for those of you still here and whingeing about the government, did you know that if you stop listening to the news every day, the crime rate drops by 78%? If you stope listening to British and American news, the recession goes away too.
I wish people who don’t live here would focus on fixing the problems in their own houses and leave mine alone. Mr Zuma ain’t goin g to listen to US – what makes you think he’s going to listen to you guys? And – guess what – good old fashioned South African resilience will prevail. Throw any government at us and we’ll be just fine.
May 6th, 2009 at 9:58 am
Here here!
May 7th, 2009 at 3:53 pm
your prez would love for you to come over to his place, so he can answer your questions…
a lift back?
no worries, he got your taxi fare!
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